Love and the new paradigm. Why the old way no longer works!

Understanding yourself and your patterns, healing childhood and past relationship trauma, feeling comfortable with boundaries, and letting go of people who no longer support your highest good, is more important now than ever. Our world is changing.  Humanity is changing and we need to adapt and change with it. What we once accepted and tolerated… Continue reading Love and the new paradigm. Why the old way no longer works!

What keeps you in your unhappy relationship?

You are giving it everything you’ve got.  You’re trying to be creative, spontaneous, giving them space when you think they need it, doing more things for them, trying to do more things for yourself, biting your tongue so as not to make waves, and even suggesting counseling but nothing is helping. Sometimes you feel a… Continue reading What keeps you in your unhappy relationship?

What a teeter-totter can teach you about overcoming, over-giving.

A subtle shift to holding yourself back and having balance in relationships   It’s not uncommon for women to over-give in their relationships and experience a lot of imbalance. As time goes on one is doing all the giving and one is doing all the taking, except for the breadcrumbs.   What isn’t realized is… Continue reading What a teeter-totter can teach you about overcoming, over-giving.

You are changing so why isn’t your partner?

Why you shouldn’t wait for your partner to change I was speaking with a woman recently and she told me that she has been waiting for her partner to change so that she could continue moving forward in her own healing. We went on to talk about two very important points; that we cannot expect… Continue reading You are changing so why isn’t your partner?