Self-love ~ Healing ~ Freedom
Your Path of Healing and Transformation
Do you ever feel tired of the fight to survive, trying to cope with life and to feel good?
Do you sometimes look up to the heavens and say, ‘I can’t take it anymore! I can’t live like this anymore? There must be something wrong with me! There has got to be more to life than this!’ (There 1000% is)
If you’ve been using alcohol or substances to cope with life, the pain from your past and you feel like you’re losing yourself in the process, know this:
There is nothing wrong with you.
God, the Universe or Spirit, is calling you to heal, to reclaim the vibrant, whole, and worthy self that you are.
No one should need to just cope with life and no one should need to rely on alcohol or drugs to cope with the pain and suffering they feel.
If this is you, you have arrived at the right place.
You may be asking, 'how did I get here?'
The short answer is: programming and life.
From the beginning of our life we begin our programming.
We are told what to do, how to think, what to say, how to behave, etc.
As children we are taught how to ‘be a good girl or boy’.
Some were hushed, some experienced abuse in some way or witnessed abuse in the home. Some were bullied. Some were emotionally neglected, some were told how to act, and behave. Some had to take care of parents and siblings at a young age and some had none of this.
Many describe their upbringing and family experience as being positive while many did experience trauma and did not have a good family experience.
Many had traumatic events happen in their teen years and beyond.
Are we really equipped to handle such a heavy load? I don’t think so but we sure do try.
But what is common is how many people feel small even when they have already achieved a level of success.
Deep within there are feelings of loneliness, disconnection, feeling unseen, unheard, feeling misunderstood and feel a deep unhappiness.
We feel scared to speak up for ourselves, go against what others want and step out on our own path.
We are scared to go to our next level so we subconsciously hold ourselves back and settle for what we have.
We are scared to have boundaries with others and succumb to the passive aggressive behaviour of others and experience toxic relationships.
All this because we have learned, through the experiences we have had up to this point in life is:
- how to stay small,
- how to be a camilian, adapting to all situations to feel like we belong,
- how to sacrifice our own wants and needs so others are happy,
- how to feel guilt and shame for making choices that may displease others,
- that others know what's best for us even when it doesn't feel right,
- how not to have boundaries,
- how not to trust our intuition
- how not to know who we are because we have been busy trying to be someone we think others want us to be.
I know you're tired of the endless battle
You’ve arrived at the right place. Here is where you will discover a path back to your divine, whole, and worthy self—a path guided by the powerful principles of SELF LOVE.
What is SELF LOVE?
It’s more than just a word. It’s a journey — a framework designed to help you heal from the inside out and reclaim your true essence.
Each principle of SELF LOVE is a step toward breaking free from the chains of addiction and stepping into a life filled with love, peace, and purpose.
How we'll get you there
- See and acknowledge the pain of your past so you can heal
To be able to heal we need to see the pain that drives your alcohol use, those subconscious wounds that make you feel unworthy or insecure. This is where the real work begins—acknowledging the roots of your struggle and committing to a path of transformation through SELF LOVE.
If you are like I was, who you show yourself to the world as may not be the same as how you feel about yourself on the inside.
This is where we start. Surrendering your pain and struggle to God and releasing the false beliefs you have of yourself that has created the false identity you have of yourself.
- Pour all the love, care, and attention you give others, into yourself first
This is self-love — shifting from seeking validation through people-pleasing to believing you deserve the same love, care, and attention you give to others.
You will learn to prioritize your own well-being, knowing that true healing starts within.
As you heal and embrace SELF LOVE, you will create a new sense of self.
You will begin to see yourself differently, attracting healthier relationships and more fulfilling experiences into your life.
- Create a new sense of self
Up until now, your inner beliefs about yourself has created you seeing yourself a certain way, as a certain type of person.
You see, you have created an incorrect inner-perception of who you are.
The new you
When you heal and pour love into yourself, you begin to see yourself in a completely different way. This new self-image attracts healthier relationships and more fulfilling experiences into your life.
Many things happen when heal and love yourself
- You break-free from alcohol and addictive substances.
- You develop strong, healthy boundaries.
- You feel good about who you are.
- You have confidence in yourself.
- You feel comfortable expressing your thoughts, ideas and points of view.
- You trust yourself and listen to your intuition.
- You are discerning about who you allow to be part of your life.
- You attract healthy relationships and align with work that fills your heart and soul.
- This is just a small laundry list. There is so much more!
You are Divine ~ You are whole ~ You are worthy
I will show you the way
Self-love Coach & Spiritual Mentor
I am Iris Sirianni.
I have a firm belief that through self-love and a connection to something much greater than ourselves (God) we can heal and dissolve the need to cope with life with the use of alcohol and substances.
My own childhood trauma and life experiences became so overwhelming for me that I started to drink to get through my days. Alcohol became a way for me to cope with my life. It also got out of control very quickly and was easily justifiable
because of social acceptance and promotion of alcohol.
So many struggle with childhood trauma and life experiences. It can become overwhelming and too much for us to handle.
I know how my life has transformed since being on my own healing path. I know what it takes to heal, accept and let go, trust and believe in something greater than myself and how it changed my life.
I have changed the relationship I have with myself. I have changed the relationship I have with alcohol. I am ready to show you the way.
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