I am Iris Sirianni and, like you, I have not had an easy go when it came to relationships.

And like you, I have always believed that I am a good person, with a big heart, a lot of love to give and a lot that I bring to a relationship.  So why was it that I would invest so much of myself in my relationships only to be heart-broken?  The answer is below.

I had to take a break from ‘looking for love in all the wrong places’ so that I could start taking all the love that I was pouring in to someone else and turn that towards myself.

My pattern (although I couldn’t see it at the time) was choosing men who were emotionally unavailable, avoided commitment and had unresolved heart-break of their own in the form of:

• childhood trauma,
• recently separated,
• recently divorced,
• separated/divorced but still living together (the story was always the same – the relationship has been over a long time ago) and,
• men who did not want to have a committed relationship with a woman who had 4 young kids.

The common denominator was me, I had no boundaries whatsoever and my desire to want to take care of them, and love them so hard that it would heal their heart and I would be loved back in the same way.

The entire experience was the catalyst that started my awakening to see myself and all others as we walk on our own healing journeys…. together in oneness, yet travelling along our own unique path.

I now bring my light and healing experience to help you on your healing path.

How I came to do the work I do now

My first coaching business started with ‘Life By Design’ in 2008.  My intention was to help women move towards creating more satisfaction and happiness in their life with the focus on making themselves happy so they have more to give – because this was me also.  My inspiration started after the movie, The Secret was released in 2006 .  This is when my healing journey truly started.

If you came from my home page you may have already read part of my story that catapulted me into my awakening that allowed me to know and love myself at a deeply spiritually connected level.  I am not always perfect and I continue to work on releasing as things come up.  I think this is important to know because spiritual growth and healing is not a destination, it is a life long journey. 

In a nutshell:    My history of over-giving, people-pleasing, and self-sacrifice came from my desire to want to take care of the men in my romantic relationships, and love them so hard that it would heal their heart and I would be loved back in the same way.  Not the case!  Not that I wasn’t loved to the best of their ability….  I just chose the ones whose hearts weren’t available to love me back in the same way.

My work has transformed and now is simply, Iris Sirianni Coaching & Healing.

I now incorporate my many years of experience helping women heal and all my training and studying into my work with you.  What I really have an appreciation for is that with each client I work with, I learn something new that I can then bring forward to help others.

 These are some of the highlights:

• Reiki
• Access Bars
• Intuitive Energy Massage
• Intuitive Development
• Cognitive Behavior Therapy
• Journey Through the Chakras
• Advanced Chakra Wisdom
• Advanced Energy Anatomy
• Attachment Theory
• Healing Your Attachment Wounds
• Anatomy of Love
• Kryon – The Lightworkers Handbook
• Energy Anatomy
• How to Read Tarot
• The experience of raising 4  kids. 

Here are some things about the personal side of me