Iris Sirianni
Learning a new way to do life.
Healthy. Happy. Fulfilling. Joyful. Without the need for alcohol.
Overcome alcohol dependence through self-love.
Reconnect with the truth of who you already are—whole, worthy, and enough..
Do You Feel Tired of Just Surviving?
Are you exhausted from trying to cope with life, constantly fighting to feel good, and wondering, “There has to be more than this”?
If you’ve relied on alcohol or substances to numb the pain of your past, and it feels like you’re losing yourself in the process, know this:
There is nothing wrong with you
The struggles you feel are a call— a call from God, the Universe, Spirit—to heal, to reclaim your vibrant, whole, and worthy self.
No one should have to live in survival mode. No one should need to rely on alcohol or drugs to mask their pain.
If this resonates, you’re in the right place.
How did I get here?
From the moment we’re born, life begins shaping us. We’re taught how to act, what to say, and who to be.
We internalize these lessons —sometimes from loving homes, but often from painful experiences like neglect, abuse, or trauma.
Over time, this conditioning leaves us feeling small, unseen, and disconnected from who we truly are.
We adapt, suppressing our own needs to fit in or make others happy, but deep down, we feel:
These patterns may have protected you once, but they’re not serving you anymore.
- Lonely and misunderstood
- Unworthy and afraid to set boundaries
- Stuck, settling for less than we deserve
You're tired of the battle!
You’ve spent so much time staying small, putting others first, and ignoring your own needs and intuition.
But now, you’re ready to rewrite that old story.
You don’t have to keep fighting to be someone you’re not.
You can heal. You can embrace your true, authentic self—complete with healthy boundaries.
And you can discover a new way to live—a life rooted in health, happiness, fulfillment, and joy.
All because you’ve chosen to love yourself.
Why I Know This Works
Iris Sirianni
Self Love Coach and Spiritual Mentor
I’ve been where you are.
Childhood trauma and life’s challenges led me to alcohol as a way to cope.
It felt justified—until it didn’t.
At one point, using alcohol felt like a reasonable way to cope with life’s challenges; my career, unhealed trauma, and the stress of being a single mom to four children.
It seemed socially acceptable, and I believed it was even necessary to get through life.
Over time, the negative consequences of alcohol use such as; emotional, physical, and spiritual disconnection, became undeniable, and the justification no longer held up.
Not sure where to begin?
Start with my free guide: ‘How to Change Your Life by Loving Yourself.’
When I began my healing journey, everything changed. I reconnected with myself and transformed the relationship I had with myself first and foremost and eventually this greatly changed the relationship I had with alcohol.
I found peace through self-love and through my connection with something greater than myself – this is God for me (use what resonates with you).
I now serve as an Aftercare coach for those continuing their journey after rehab, and I also serve you, meeting you exactly where you are on your path to healing.
I’m here to guide you – every step of the way.
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Change Happens when you
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and Are Open to Change
The hardest part of change is realizing that you want it but not knowing how make the change you seek. Let us help guide you in your journey to find the path you seek. Not all change is easy but with change comes new doors that open to your life journey!
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